Last July, almost exactly a year ago, cancer took him away from us. He fought a hard fight with his wife and 3 kids by his side continually, not to mention with the support of countless friends, church members, and extended family. He is missed every day.
While staying in his home with his wife and daughter after the funeral, a wild idea popped in my head. I wanted to make a Memorial Quilt for his wife, Janet. I wasn't sure how to approach it, but I just did. I asked her how she'd feel about giving me most of his shirts so that I could make her a quilt. She was immediately for it. So, away we went, purging closets and drawers. Her requests were that 1), it be red, 2), that the University of Utah shirts be at the bottom, and 3), that a BYU shirt be in the middle since SHE was a BYU fan, and she was the one left behind. (The rivalry between those two colleges lived strong in their household). I came home with a suitcase full of shirts and with hope to make something wonderful.
I'm not going to lie - this quilt was a challenge. I had made a t-shirt quilt before, but that one didn't have the weight of sadness with it. Sometimes I just couldn't think about it. Also, I had more cotton shirts than t-shirts for Craig's quilt, and I wasn't sure how to use them well. I pondered, researched online, asked my friend Carrie for help, played with it, put it away, played with it again. Sigh. As the months went on, all three of Craig's children got engaged! I decided that before the third one got married, I would finish the quilt. So, the last few weeks have been busy!!
I faced many fears with this project. It had to be beautiful and nearly perfect for my dear sister-in-law. This quilt had to be strong for years to come, for children and grandchildren. No pressure, huh? I am mathematically challenged sometimes, so when I design a quilt, (which I rarely do), I have to think it through a long time and check and re-check my calculations. And, I knew that I had to do some free-motion quilting on the t-shirts, which scared me to death. What if I messed up??? Ugh. Lots of pressure. I do this to myself frequently.
I marched forward - I finished it 2 days before flying to Utah for the third child's wedding! It would now be my wedding present to Janet, for marrying off all three of her dear children.
The moment of giving the quilt to Janet will forever be in my mind and heart. She loved it. She will cherish it, I know. I hope during those moments when she misses Craig, that she can wrap up in it and feel his large, strong arms around her and feel some comfort while she waits for the eternities.
I love you, Janet.
Now, here are the photos:
|On the Long-Arm, quilting away|
|C and J in the blue 4-patches, which were made out of his button-down shirts|
|A Stacked- Coin row of strips from his shirts, and the row below it |
is a row of his pockets from the same shirts
|This is his company logo - notice the right side from top to bottom.... see the cars?|
|All done and waiting for the Binding!|
|My dear sister|
|C and J Forever|